Pregancy

Starting a family? Thinking about starting a family is a very exciting prospect but it can also be daunting. Any prospective parent worries about how they might cope, but these worries can be compounded when you have a disability.

Seek support The most important thing is to talk things through with your partner, and seek advice and support so that you can make an informed choice about a possible pregnancy. You might contact your doctor, specialist consultant or may decide to have genetic counselling. It is also a good idea to speak to others who have gone through a similar experience.

Remember that being an “independent” parent does not necessarily mean doing things on your own. Being “independent” could mean that you need someone else’s hands to do the practical things for you. You can instruct others as to how you would like things done, whether that’s a PA, a friend or a family member.

Here at NMC they are several clients who have gone on to have children despite their disability. Deciding to have children is a big decision, even more so when you have a disability, but with the right advice, support and equipment, in most cases it is possible. Tanni Grey Thompson and Alison Laper are examples of parents with a disability who have shown that it can be done!

Disability, Pregnancy & Parenthood (DPPI) A charity that promotes better awareness and support for disabled people during pregnancy and as parents. A free and confidential enquiry service.Tel 0800 018 4730 email: info@dppi.org.uk Web: http://www.dppi.org.uk/ about.php